Wednesday, November 18, 2015

                    Life Planning 100+ Goals
                                                                      November
                                                               YES=13    NO=0
18.yes
19.yes
20.yes
21.yes
22.yes
23.yes
24.yes
25.yes
26.yes
27.yes
28.yes
29.yes
30.yes
                                                                    December
                                                                YES=24       NO=7
1.yes
2.yes
3.yes
4.yes
5.yes
6.yes
7.yes
8.yes
9.yes
10.yes
11.yes
12.yes
13.yes
14.yes
15.yes
16.yes
17.no
19.no
20.yes
21.yes
22.yes
23.yes
24.yes
25.no
26.no
27.yes
28.yes
29.no
30.no
31.no
                                                                     January
                                                             YES:28     NO:3
1.yes
2.yes
3.yes
4.yes
5.yes
6.no
7.no
8.yes
9.yes
10.yes
11.yes
12.yes
13.yes
14.yes
15.yes
16.yes
17.yes
18.yes
19.yes
20.yes
21.yes
22.yes
23.yes
24.yes
25.yes
26.yes
27.no
28.yes
29.yes
30.yes
31.yes
                                                                 FEBRUARY
                                                            YES:29           NO:0
1.yes
2.yes
3.yes
4.yes
5.yes
6.yes
7.yes
8.yes
9.yes
10.yes
11.yes
12.yes
13.yes
14.yes
15.yes
16.yes
17.yes
18.yes
19.yes
20.yes
21.yes
22.yes
23.yes
24.yes
25.yes
26.yes
27.yes
28.yes
29.yes

                                                                                MARCH
                                                                       YES: 28           NO:3
1.yes
2.yes
3.yes
4.yes
5.yes
6.yes
7.yes
8.yes
9.yes
10.yes
11.yes
12.yes
13.yes
14.no
15.yes
16.yes
17.yes
18.yes
19.no
20.yes
21.yes
22.yes
23.yes
24.yes
25.no
26.yes
27.yes
28.yes
29.yes
30.yes
31.yes
                     
                                                                          APRIL
                                                                    Yes:28  No:2

1.yes
2.yes
3.yes
4.yes
5.yes
6.yes
7.yes
8.yes
9.yes
10.yes
11.yes
12.yes
13.yes
14.yes
15.yes
16.yes
17.yes
18.yes
19.yes
20.no
21.yes
22.yes
23.yes
24.yes
25.yes
26.yes
27.yes
28.yes
29.no
30.yes
                                                              May
                                                                YES: 28  NO: 3
1.yes
2.yes
3.yes
4.yes
5.yes
6.yes
7.no
8.yes
9.no
10.yes
11.yes
12. yes
13.yes
14.yes
15.yes
16.yes
17.yes
18.yes
19.yes
20.yes
21.yes
22.yes
23.yes
24.yes
25.yes
26.yes
27.no
28.yes
29.yes
30.yes
31.yes
                                                                      June
1.yes
2.yes
3.yes
4.yes
5.yes
6.yes

Monday, November 16, 2015

Six Ways to Make People Like you. If you want people to like you........

Rule 1: Becoming genuinely interested in other people.
"Do this and you will be welcome anywhere."
"You can make more friends in two months by becoming interested in other people than you can in two years by trying to get other people interested in you."
"Ask questions to other people, questions that they would enjoy answering."

No matter how nice or respectful you are some people will not like you, but there is one way that you can make people like you and it is by being interested in what other people think or believe.

Rule 2: Smile 
"Actions speak louder than words, and a smile says,"i like you. You make me happy. I am glad to see you." 
Smiling is one of the most important actions a human should learn to do. A smile can make the day of someone a lot better, it might sound exaggerated but a smile might even save someones life  

Rule 3: Remember names 
" A man's name is to him the sweetest and most important sound in any language."
"If you don't remember names, you are headed for trouble." 

Being able to remember a name is a lot more important than many think. If you meet someone the first thing that should be asked is each others name. Not knowing someones name can be extremely rude and it can be taken as a form of discrimination and rudeness. 

Rule 4: Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves
" If you aspire to be a good conversationalist, be an attentive listener."
" Remember that the man you are talking to is a hundred times more interested in himself and his wants and his problems than he is in you and your problems."
Being a good listener plays a huge role in making people like you, because when someone meets someone else they expect for him/her to listen to their name and point of view, that way a good conversation can be hold. Being a good listener is important because that is a good way to learn them name of someone else.

5 steps for active listening
1.stay focus
dont judge
be patient
keep eye contact
2. really listen, do not be thinking of what you should say next
3. allow for period of silence, wait until the other person speaks again
4. read and paraphrase their words again
5. understand the emotions behind the words

Rule 5: Talk in terms of the other man's interest. 
"The royal road to a man's heart is to talk to him about the things he treasures most." 
This quote has a lot of importance because it allows for us to become better people, and it also makes people like us more. It is extremely rude to be talking about ones selves all the time, and not talk about what the other person likes, but before doing all this, you must be able to listen really carefully.  

Rule 6: Make the other person feel important-and do it sincerely.
"The desire to be important is deepest urge in human nature ." (John Dewey) "Helping people feel important and appreciate works magic".

Reflection:


Monday, November 9, 2015

                                            Glenn Cunningham
Glenn Cunningham is a great example of someone who is qualified as a great achiever because he was able to prove everyone who doubted him wrong, and all because he had a heart with no limits. When he was a little boy he was involved in an accident which took the life of his brother and injured him really bad. The doctor stated that Glenn was never going to be able to walk again, but he did not give up so easily. Every day he would say to him self that he was going to walk, and no matter how painful it was he would get up and try to give a few steps until he became successful. Glenn had so much heart and determination that he even went to the Olympics, and he did not stop there, he continued and did everything possible to become a doctor. I can conclude that Glenn is a man that deserves to be called a high achiever because he achieved something that many would have thought impossible.